Matters you should know before getting in touch with me.

You should be able to make the difference between being willingly my submissive slave and being abused. Though in your mind you probably fantasies on being abused, this will have to remain as a fantasy.

Our relationship will have all the aspects of an "abuse" situation, but will never be a real "abuse" situation for the following reasons:

1) Abuse is an out-of-control situation. Our scene is a fully controlled situation.

2) Abuse in when one person (the dominant) alone determines what will happen without the knowledge of the other party. You will only choose to become my submissive slave after you have read, understood, discussed and accepted my conditions (or eventually specific conditions we will agree upon beforehand).

3) Abuse is when no consent is taken or given. I will only accept you as my submissive slave after you have given me your knowledgeable consent.

4) Being abused, you cannot stop what is happening. We shall convene from the very early stages of a word that will allow you to stop a scene at any time for physical or emotional reasons.

5) In an abuse situation, no concern is given to the needs, desires and limits of the abused. Being my submissive slave, I will be very much concerned about your needs, desires and limits.

6) In an abuse situation, often alcohol or drugs are used. You will never be allowed any type of drugs and I will never approach you in an impaired by alcohol situation (should the situation ever occurs, as it should not).

7) No permanent physical damage will ever be performed on you. No marks, tattoos or piercing (without your full  consent) will ever be made. However I might bring, if needed, some changes to your body (such as enlargement of your nipples, the stretching of you inner lips, the remodeling of your body muscles, the strengthening of your buttocks, etc...)

And last, but certainly not least, after an abuse situation, both the abuser and the abused feel bad. At the end of a scene, we should both feel good.